7. You feel secure to not just share the good, but also the negative emotions.
Everyone will have moments where everything is going wrong. If you are open to discussing this with your spouse, it means you trust them. When you overcome the fears that your partner might hurt you by judging you, this is a huge win for your relationship and you can feel secure.
You are not afraid to talk about your real feelings anymore, and even if you are offended, you are not afraid to lose a person because you both know that breaking up is not the solution. This can be especially important for women who feel safe when they know that their relationship is going somewhere, according to psychologists.