5. You don’t control each other.
Trust issues can ruin relationships rapidly, especially if you become a control freak and start calling or texting your spouse every hour. If you don’t let him scan your phone, he thinks that you have a secret lover and this indicates that there is no trust.
And vice versa, when you give a person some air to breathe and stop controlling them, it means you are not only settled about your partner, but also about yourself.
Psychologists also say that it’s possible to fix things when someone is being overcontrolling, but you’ll need to take emotional risks and learn to trust.